Yes there are many things people haven’t done for themselves because there’s some activation energy or willpower required. But in some cases the required activation energy is low enough that all it takes is having someone else proactively offer to guide you through it.

For example, I was a self-taught mediocre pianist for 10 years before I finally delegated to a friend the task of finding me a piano teacher, and suddenly I made huge progress from learning how to do a few things correctly. If ImproveMyLifs said “can I find you a piano teacher?” I would agree that’s a valuable proposal, yet I’d never done it myself.